Whats Up With Marriage?

Happy Wednesday All!....now that, that's out the way.

     Marriage seems to be a hot button topic right now. I'm not a fan on blogging about whats popular usually, but marriage is something that I believe affects everyone so it is important to discuss.

   Marriage doesn't affect me....I'm not marriage yet you may be thinking.

    Maybe you aren't, but are your parents, are your friends, do you plan to get married?

     Let me put out this disclaimer. I'm not married yet... How do I feel about that?

 Extra cool. Of course I want to get married, but I know its important and NOT JUST a license (to me...and God that is...Hebrews 13, 1Cor. 7...etc.) so until a SUITABLE mate is presented and not just A MATE (which is extra easy to find for anyone I would think)  then okay.

     Until one is married, don't sit in a corner and knit sweaters all day (yikes...I mean don't let that be the only thing you do...I have friends who knit and sew lol). We all have purpose and it doesn't go away when your married, it just unites with someone else's, which is why its important to marry someone who believes in the vision God gave them and you as well (Jeremiah 29:11 and Jeremiah 1:5).

Now that all of that is out of the way, get to the meat.

I went to church this pass Sunday expecting to hear almost anything, but a sermon on marriage. I'm so happy I did. I am a big believer in learning how to be a better wife or for men a better husband before getting married. Not to say you will get everything right before marriage (maybe its possible), but to at least have an awesome head start and foundation.

     For some reason, its hot outside and a lot of people are getting married and or getting in relationships (heat and hormones I tell ya...jk...or am I?). Sadly, there may be just as many if not more people getting a divorce. Why? Especially among Christians? Maybe we are viewing this wrong, maybe our expectations are wrong and we are getting these day dreams from people who marriage sucks (lets be real). Maybe we have stopped looking to The One we are suppose to be vowing in front of to our mate (ponder face).

Anyway, if your interested, Saved or not. Visit www.TheLife.cc and click on one of the 3 versions of "The Lord Of the Rings," (I clicked the longest because I do not want to miss anything!).

I hope this helps people, also myself and Lord's Will my future Honey Bear (husband).  Hey we all can stand to be better people for sure.

Be Fierce, Be Fine, Better You...WhyKnot?!

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